oh.. how come people always say 'what if we quarrel, what if we break up, what if the love fades, what if..'

how come 'what ifs' are all bad things? why no such thing as what if we last?

cause to make a relationship last, effort is required, and its not up to chance..

perhaps when older people fall in love they tend to last cause they are more serious..

p.s: anyone gets the rubbish i blabbering?